Feeding the Hungry in Our Community

Dave Paton in garden w friendsWe are blessed to live in such a wonderful community.  As we drive into the campus, we are greeted with the sign stating, “Tel Hai – Redefining Retirement.” The residents of Tel Hai know that one important facet of our retirement redefining begins with our varied forms of heartfelt volunteering.

I have been involved with the Chester County Food Bank for several years and have seen a large number of people living in prosperous Chester County who go to bed each night hungry. The Honey Brook Mobile Food Pantry is a new agency in the local community that is run completely by volunteers. The Honey Brook Food Pantry began in January 2014 and is an arm of the Chester County Food Bank.  During the first six months of assisting Honey Brook residents obtain food to improve their lives, the Food Pantry increased the number of people served from 269 in January to 655 in June—an increase of 143 %. The Tel Hai Gardeners are now assisting by giving vegetables to this important community outreach.

The Honey Brook Food Pantry is open the last Wednesday of each month at 5064 Horseshoe Pike (Good Food Distribution Center) on Route 322 across from Wimpy & Dee’s Diner.  Families will receive non-perishable food items, dairy and fresh produce (when in season).

If you are interested in helping to feed the hungry in our community, you may join the gardeners by donating bread, desserts, and other non-perishable foods to the Honey Brook Food Pantry at the above location at 9:00 AM on the last Wednesday of each month.  If you have questions, please feel free to contact Phoebe Kitson at the Chester County Food Bank, 650 Pennsylvania Drive in Exton at 610-873-6000. Donations to the Chester County Food Bank are accepted at that warehouse location Monday through Friday from 8:00am to 4:00pm. To learn more about the Honey Brook Food Pantry you can contact me at davidpaton@comcast.net.

 

Dave Paton,

Tel Hai Resident

Volunteer Spotlight: Dick Sauder

dsauder9Intellectually curious, Dick Sauder is compelled to resolve problems by figuring out the source of the problem. Why has this stopped working? Why does this take too much time? Because he solves problems, fixes things, figures out the best way to perform a task, dedicates his time to do a job right, we are shining our Volunteer Spotlight on Dick Sauder.

He is dedicated to entering in our volunteer time correctly. After residents log their volunteer hours in the log book, Dick spends several hours per week into our tracking database. It is very important to Tel Hai that these hours are accurately tracked, and Dick takes this job seriously. The hours in the tracking datrabase3 are compiled and used each time we file for tax- exempt status.

Dick reminds us that we need to report the AREAS of care people are volunteering in, not the task they are performing. For example, we need to report areas like Residential Living, Lakeview, Meadows, Development, and . Dick sits by our computer for hours and meticulously enters the hours each of us has entered into the Volunteer Hours Log Book.

With continued attention to detail, Dick loves an intellectual challenge. If it doesn’t run, and it needs to run, Dick figures out how to fix it. That’s what he does. He has an amazing talent for fixing things with moving parts, such as clocks. The Grandfather clock that had been donated to Tel Hai and is located in the Chapel Lobby had stopped working. Dick took on the challenge to figure out WHY it was not working. He figured it out, and he fixed it.

In addition to resolving mechanical problems, Dick has a passion for the stars, the solar system, and the natural astronomical wonders of God’s creation. He built a scale discovery model of the solar system so residents could compare relative sizes of the planets, and their distances from the sun.  With this model, we took a stroll around our solar system out to the planet Saturn at 700’ from the sun and learned about it in a way not usually available to us.

Since 1967, Dick and his wife, Ruthie, built over a half dozen telescopes. Imagine that: a hand-made telescope! HE tells us he started building the largest one, a 16” diameter in 1987, and, when it was completed, he started having visitors look through it in 1990. He has been sharing it ever since. Dick has done demonstrations and shared his self-taught knowledge of the stars with over 2000 people.

Dick also uses his personal CAD computer system to create maps of our campus. We have asked him multiple times to help with Marketing events like Day in the Countryand Holly Trail by creating maps that highlight open homes, helping guests and visitors locate the homes they wish to see. His maps are not limited to the out-of-doors. Using his computer expertise, he  created a map of the library, helping avid readers locate the best seller for which they had been looking.

Following his passion for teaching, Dick helps with presentations in the Chapel. He sometimes runs the computer and has recently learned the sound system to ensure participants can hear what is being said. He also participates in the Men’s Bible study group by operating the DVD system. Recently he helped the group get a 28 DVD set that covers the entire book of Revelation.

For his passion for life, love of learning, aptitude for teaching himself and others, a penchant for figuring out and solving problems, and for his willingness to share his love of God and fellow residents, we thank Dick Sauder and highlight him in our Volunteer Spotlight.

Volunteer Spotlight Pat Richey

PRicheyPoetry-enthusiast, Phillies-Phanatic, and busy-bee worker, Pat Richey, is a very busy lady here at Tel Hai and elsewhere. Pat and her Husband, Tom, moved to Tel Hai eleven years ago, and she immediately started giving her time to Tel Hai Re-Sale Shop. She reminds us that the re-sale shop started out as a flea market housed in a tiny little room, the room that is now the linen room, and, she adds, it was only open in May with some books and a few other things, defiantly no furniture, there was no room.The shop was then relocated down to the 800 building, near the sewer plant, and the committee thought that was great! They had their own building with shelves and room for bigger things like furniture! It didn’t last very long in that location, they were moved back up to the Hertzler building and given space to spread their wings and become the successful operation they are today. Pat tells us that the volunteers in the Wood Shop made the current shelving set up to enhance the displays.

Through these past eleven years, Pat worked to price the items for sale. Each time you see a nice little display with clearly marked price labels, think about Pat Richey and her dedicated staff of volunteers; Barb Peel, Shirley Walton, and the late Kay Griffin.  Thank them for the clarity of any purchases you wish to make. She tells us they would arrive every Tuesday morning at 8:30 to begin their work. Sometimes she would have to lock the doors because folks would see the open doors and want to come in to see what she was doing and perhaps make off with a special deal! That was every Tuesday at 8:30 for eleven years. That is a lot of volunteer hours, and for the consistency, dependability, and organized effort, we thank Pat Richey and highlight her in the Volunteer Spotlight. .Pat thanks her neighbor, Bill Emmanuel,for introducing her to the possibilities for giving back with work in the Re-sale shop: he said, “Come on. We need help”. With her Girl Scout spirit, she went to help, and has been busy ever since.

Regardless of where she is or what she is doing, Pat usually has a Philadelphia Phillies game within listening distance if they are playing. She tells us she used to travel in to Philadelphia for many games, but she prefers the comforts of home any more to the less-comfortable stadium seating. She gives her time to make sure the re-sale shop operates smoothly and enjoys a lot of sales.

Pat is a really big poetry enthusiast, and one only need visit her home to see evidence of this love. She especially loves historical motto poems and displays them on her “Motto” wall. Here we can see a Lincoln wall, aUniversity wall,and aWashington wall. Poetry on her wall was, to a large part, written in the late nineteenth and early twentieth century. She does have favorites: The Sportsman’s Prayer by BertonBraley and After the Lights Went Out by Leo S. Robinson. These motto poems and their authors are, for the most part,fading from public memory; however, Pat remembers them and their stories and poems live on in the stories Pat shares ever so willingly.With a visit to her cottage, one can clearly see her passion for this precious piece of our cultural history. Her favorite poet is Edgar Guest whose most famous poem was Guest’s most famous poem is the oft-quoted Home.

Pat and Tom brought Kelton to Tel Hai when they moved here. Now, Kelton is a very special member of their family and has been for the past 47 years. He even paraded in the Day in the Country Pet Parade last year. Pat tells us they found Kelton in the road after a storm in 1967 and have enjoyed his companionship ever since.She has a collection of Kelton’s stories in newspaper clippings with stories about his volunteer work here. Kelton does friendly visits on the front porch of Lakeview in the warm summer Months.

Once upon a generation ago, Pat and Tom met at a political rally for Presidential candidate and World War II hero, Dwight David Eisenhower. Pat was at the University Of Pennsylvania Hospital, working as a nurse. As a young Republican, she had been recruited to go to the pep rally and hand out literature.  And the rest…   as they say…  is history. They met, fell in love, were married, had a daughter, Megan, who died in 2005.  Pat is a retired nurse.

Pat Richey is indeed a blessing to Tel Hai through the service and energy she has given to the Re-Sale Shop. She lives by the mottos that she so proudly displays and dearly loves:

The Sportsman’s Prayer
by BertonBraley

Dear Lord, in the battle that goes on through life
I ask but a field that is fair,
A chance that is equal with all in the strife,
A courage to strive and to dare;

And if I should win, let it be by the code
With my faith and my honor held high;Unknown
And if I should lose, let me stand by the road,
And cheer as the winners go by.

And Lord, may my shouts be ungrudging and clear,
A tribute that comes from the heart,
And let me not cherish a snarl or a sneer
Or play any sniveling part;

Let me say, “There they ride, on whom laurel’s bestowed
Since they played the game better than I.”
Let me stand with a smile by the side of the road,
And cheer as the winners go by.

So grant me to conquer, if conquer I can,
By proving my worth in the fray,
But teach me to lose like a regular man,
And not like a craven, I pray;

Let me take off my hat to the warriors who strode
To victory splendid and high,
Yea, teach me to stand by the side of the road
And cheer as the winners go by.

-Berton Braley

For the time, talent, love of poetry and baseball, enthusiasm for life, and volunteerism, we thank Pat Richey and highlight her in the Volunteer Spotlight.

So…Just Why Do Pie Auctions Work?

MarketingpicPie auctions work because people LOVE to give. In love, folks baked home-made pies. Using old family recipes and well-known favorites, residents, staff and members of neighborhood churches rolled crusts, blended fruits, whipped meringue, turned the ovens on and waited for the hand-made masterpieces to brown and bubble to an ever-so-perfect finish.

Pie Auctions work because people are willing to get up early, and, starting at 8:00 am, they descended upon the Tel Hai Chapel to Unknown 1deliver their pies and hand them off to the tender-loving care of the Pie Auction committee chair, Ann Paton, who then checked off the entry and mounted the pie upon the well-deserved pedestal for display and auction. Each pie was auctioned to raise money for the Tel Hai Care Assurance Fund.

Unknown 2Pie auctions work because people are willing to bid! The bidding started with a flurry of activity. Fast and furious – that’s what I’d call the bidding. So many bids, too many to count, but, if you really wanted a particular pie, you had to bid!

We wondered just how the auctioneer managed to keep up with the bids – but keep up he did, and, at the end of the day, everyone had fun.

 

Pie auctions work because winners realized their pie brought a wonderfully Unknown 3high bid, while other winners got to take the pies home, and the Care Assurance Fund received a 2014 Day in the Country Pie Auction contribution of over $1,000.00. Be sure to come again next year for another old-fashioned, fun-filled, fast-paced, original event: the Tel Hai Pie Auction!

Fran Atkins, resident

What I Love About Tel Hai

_MG_3709Gathered with friends recently in the Garden Café, we were enjoying a relaxed dinner with friends. With a brief pause in our quiet conversation, our attention was drawn to a group of twenty or more folks entering. They were laughing and finishing the stories they had begun at their “before-dinner” party. Sure… they were having fun. At least that was the appearance they gave. They stopped at our table to say “Hi” and greet us with their sunshine and laughter.

They were on their way to continue their merriment in Azalea Square Dining Room. As they drew away, I asked one of the party-goers, “What’s the occasion?”

“Oh,” she responded, “Frieda finished her physical therapy today!”

Together, they were celebrating one neighbor’s accomplishment of having completed physical therapy following a broken bone. What a wonderful neighborhood to gather in appreciation and celebration for an event that might have gone unnoticed in many neighborhoods.

And that… is what I love… what I love… what I love… about Tel Hai!

 

Fran Atkins, resident

Louise Wenger

LWengerLouise Wenger shared a very busy and productive fifty-two years of marriage with her husband Bill. Life was good. Louise kept busy with parenting, farm chores, and learning the clock repair business as she helped her husband with his at-home business. But, she adds, when she lost her husband ten years ago, she realized she had some lonely hours to fill. Because she reached out to Tel Hai to fill her lonely hours, we are a better and happier place. For helping us and filling our hours with sunshine and smiles, we thank Louise.

Louise has volunteered here since 2004. She tells us that they knew Tel Hai well, because they had visited her great aunt as early on as the mid-1970s. Her husband Bill used to speak at fifth Sunday Worship services in our Chapel.

Louise tells us that she had wanted to be a nurse as a young girl, but her parents had a small farm and didn’t have the funds to send her to nursing school. She never looked back on her childhood career dreams through her busy parenting years, but when her oldest daughter, Pat, went off to college, thoughts of a career returned. She spoke about working with Bill, and they decided to leave it in the Lord’s hands. If He wanted her to have employment outside of their home, something would present itself as a sign. And, a sign she got! An acquaintance called and asked her to help out in a neighborhood nursing home – she did and she loved it! Her prayers had been answered.

Louise has three daughters: the first-born, Pat, lives in Alaska; her second daughter, Marcella, lives in Elverson, and her youngest daughter, Brenda, lives in Oxford. All three daughters work the medical field. Pat, who is an RN, married a Doctor in the service and moved to Alaska in 1983 following military assignments. Marcella is a dental assistant but now provides nursing care in Elverson. Brenda is an RN with Hospice in Oxford.

Her three daughters have given the next generations to Louise. She has five grandchildren, and she is eagerly awaiting the birth of her tenth great-grandchild. Louise tells of her grandchildren’s careers with joy in her voice as they seem to have followed the dream and have found careers in the field of medicine ranging from RNs to research doctors.

When asked if she had ever travelled to Alaska, Louise replies, “Oh! Lots of times!” She travels easily, and plans to travel to the Alaska again when her great-grandchild is born. She adds that her grandson, who lives on the West coast, has a fishery degree and works to preserve our fish and food supply. There will be no slowing down for Louise. Not soon. Not now. Not yet!

Outside of Tel Hai, Louise also stays busy. She helps at church and is always lending a neighbor a hand. In fact, as we spoke, Louise received a telephone call from a neighbor who needed Louise to come to do some clock repair. Louise tells us she learned to repair clocks by watching her husband, and she continues to do small repairs as she can.

Before renovations changed the nature of our gift shop, Louise used to volunteer there. Following the renovations, she helps out at the front desks. In addition, she helps with Friday morning coffees in Lakeview, and she accompanies Lakeview residents on their shopping trips. For variety, she helps with the Book Sale and with Marketing’s Day in the Country; but she usually does just about anything we ask.

For helping us and filling our hours with sunshine and smiles, we thank Louise. For all of the hours she gives with eager enthusiasm, we highlight Louise Wenger in our Volunteer Spotlight. Add to this, that Louise is not a resident, and we are even more surprised. She is such a familiar face. We are often surprised to learn she doesn’t even live here. She knows so many people, and they all know her because of her welcoming, friendly smile and ever present, ever helpful nature.

Walk Like MADD

Walkpic1Since July 2010, at least seven young people have been killed in alcohol-related crashes in the Honey Brook/Downingtown area alone. This horrific and tragic statistic has become a fact of life that has had an irrevocable effect on the families and friends of the victims. To honor the memory of these local youths who lost their lives in drunken driving crashes, a 5K walk is being held in Downingtown on Sunday, May 4, 2014.

Organizers are urging community members to join in the fight with MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) on that date as walkers or trail volunteers.

WALK like MADD® is the organization’s signature event. It will be held in over 60 cities throughout the nation, involving thousands of walkers united by the goal of creating a brighter future without drunk driving and underage drinking.

The registration fee for the local event is $20 and interested volunteers can register online to walk or assist along the route which will start at 9:00am at The Ponds in Downingtown.

Tel Hai is sponsoring a team of walkers as part of our community outreach efforts. You can join us by registering online as part of the Tel Hai Team. To secure registration forms on campus, please contact Keeli Looper in the Volunteer Services Office.

For more information please call 484-252-9114 or register for the event online at www.walklikemadd.org/Downingtown.

Keeli Looper, Volunteer Services Director

Chasity Brown, Wellness Director

Ladies Tea and Historical Fashion Show at Tel Hai

FranAtkinsOn the first day of Spring, ladies at Tel Hai gathered together for a tea; but, this was no ordinary tea. Volunteers collected tea pots and china tea cups from residents and dining services – enough to serve 130 ladies with elegance. Karen Jessee came with entertainment that was informative, interesting, and educational. She calls her demonstration, “The Way We Wore.” We learned about the changes to ladies fashions – including outerwear and underwear – and the way those changes were influenced by political and economic surroundings.

We wanted to do something that showed how very much we appreciate our staff, and this seemed like an enjoyable way to give proceeds from ticket sales to the Good Samaritan Fund while spending time with our friends and neighbors. Temporarily lost in time and fashion through the years, our afternoon flew by and was gone before we realized it was time to go!  We left the day feeling good about our effort,what we learned, and what we had earned for the Good Samaritan Fund.

It is a sad day that passes by without presenting a reason to smile, a challenge to our thinking, the luxury of comfort and friendship, and an opportunity to give back to the community that cares for us so lovingly and eagerly.We did all this and more: we smiled at the humorous things women used to do in the name of beauty; we tried to figure out just how women ever managed to get those “contraptions” in place to minimize their waists and expand their hips; we languished in the comfort of sharing tea with good friends; but, ultimately, we rejoiced in the good we were able to do in giving back to the Good Samaritan Fund.

Fran Atkins, cottage resident

Book Bargains Abound!

keeliThe Tel Hai Library Committee is currently collecting donations of books, VHS tapes and DVDs in good condition which will go on sale at bargain prices on Thursday, April 3.  We invite avid readers on and off campus to take advantage of this wonderful opportunity to share items through donation and then add exciting new titles to your home library at the sale!

You are welcome to peruse the stacks on Thursday, April 3 from 9:00am until 5:00pm and again on Friday, April 4 from 8:00am to 1:00pm in the Tel Hai Chapel. Last year we collected more than 200 boxes of items for the sale which were sold at bargain prices. Any items remaining at the end of the two-day sale are donated to the Honey Brook Community Library for their annual fund raiser.

Past sales have made it possible for the Tel Hai Library Committee to expand the stacks, enhance the library’s variety of materials offered, and added a magnification center for residents with visual impairments. The Library Committee members including our Chair, Georgia Cloonan, Veanna Baxter, Pat Butler, Elaine Fling, Sarah Foreacre, Jean Gould, Margaret Ionni, Donna McLay, Tom Meredith, and Mollie VanZanten look forward to seeing you at the sale April 3rd and 4th!

Keeli Looper,

Volunteer Services Director

Volunteer Spotlight: Joy Settles

MG_3917A child of Springfield, Delaware County, Joy Settles has been a resident of Tel Hai for six years. She brought with her an affinity for volunteering, and she gives her time in a large part to Lakeview. She works the desk and serves refreshments as she spreads sunshine throughout the rooms there, and for this, we shine our volunteer spotlight on Joy Settles.

Having completed her nursing training after high school, Joy worked at the Bellingham Retirement community. Balancing her career with marriage and parenting, Joy had four children, seventeen Grandchildren, and ten Great Grandchildren – that’s a lot of love!

All the while, Joy  lived by the words of wisdom her mother had shared with her: other told her that her name “joy” meant: Jesus 1st Others 2nd Yourself Last. In fact, Joy adds, her mother got her into volunteering by telling her time and again to “Help others Joy.” Following this example, Joy has volunteered over 4000 hours at Sunrise in Exton. Joy says, “I can’t imagine NOT volunteering, it gives you a sense of purpose every day.”

When asked about her, staff tells us, “Joy is a great volunteer. She loves to help at parties- setting out the decorations and serving the cupcakes and ice cream. She also helps with our craft classes. Joy is a real help to our Wellness department. She also does some of our paperwork. On top of that she enjoys helping out on Sundays with the refreshment cart. She travels with us throughout Lakeview, with goodies that our residents bake, offering them to everyone. We love Joy! She also volunteers at the front desk in Lakeview. She’s a part of the Lakeview family.

The rewards Joy receives multiply as she continues to serve. She likes to feel needed and wants to be helpful, so volunteering is a very good fit. Volunteering at Lakeview, Joy tells us she loves interacting with the residents.

When she is not busy volunteering, Joy has many interests. She enjoys nature and taking walks, where she pauses to watch the Birds, appreciate the flowers, and admire the lily pond near the chapel. With a passion for music and fun, Joy likes decorating for Tel Haven functions. To create a touch of color for their parties, she cuts hearts out for the valentine luncheon and shamrocks for the St. Patrick’s Day luncheon.

For indoor activities, Joy likes reading poetry and line dancing. Among her many volunteer activities, Joy sits at the Lakeview desk, Joy is a dedicated volunteer there and she keeps an eye open always looking for new volunteers. She likes to work the weekend hours, because she says, “I get to see the people, and visit with them.”

Joy is a people-person. She likes taking residents juice or crackers when they are sitting out on the front porch, and she likes to help people as they come in the front doors visiting.

When asked why she chose Tel Hai, she tells us she has a very dear friend here, Pat Caroll. They met many years ago during a snow storm in 1961, and have been friends ever since. Pat lived here, and that helped influence Joy’s decision. Finally, after having waited eleven long wait-listed years for an apartment, Joy moved in moved into Tel Haven, which, she recalls, was during a very HOT month of June the Electric was out so there was no air conditioning.

The checklist of areas and activities Joy helps with goes on and on…

Monthly census activity sheets in activity book for LV

Lakeview desk on weekend

Lakeview activities and refreshment cart

LV birthday parties

Read Mail to residents that request it

Care for Chapel flowers

Worship Committee and Chapel Usher

Communion Preparation

Visiting Residents

Prepare mailings and stuff envelopes

We are always looking for new volunteers for the different areas of Lakeview, such as sitting at the reception desk to help with residents or direct visitors or adding a touch of festivity to their parties.  Joy is our main go-to person there.  If any of the Lakeview volunteer opportunities beckon to you, contact the Volunteer Office – we need you! For inspiring us and for helping us in so very many ways, we highlight Joy Settles in the volunteer spotlight, and we thank her for her energy and the example she brings to the Volunteer Office.