What I Love About Tel Hai

_MG_3709Gathered with friends recently in the Garden Café, we were enjoying a relaxed dinner with friends. With a brief pause in our quiet conversation, our attention was drawn to a group of twenty or more folks entering. They were laughing and finishing the stories they had begun at their “before-dinner” party. Sure… they were having fun. At least that was the appearance they gave. They stopped at our table to say “Hi” and greet us with their sunshine and laughter.

They were on their way to continue their merriment in Azalea Square Dining Room. As they drew away, I asked one of the party-goers, “What’s the occasion?”

“Oh,” she responded, “Frieda finished her physical therapy today!”

Together, they were celebrating one neighbor’s accomplishment of having completed physical therapy following a broken bone. What a wonderful neighborhood to gather in appreciation and celebration for an event that might have gone unnoticed in many neighborhoods.

And that… is what I love… what I love… what I love… about Tel Hai!

 

Fran Atkins, resident

Spending Lots of Time Indoors?

Stacks of booksWant a great way to achieve a sense of accomplishment when the weather has you stuck indoors? How about clearing out shelves, boxes or drawers containing items you no longer need and that others can enjoy? Tel Hai’s Volunteer Services Department and Library Committee members are looking for donations of gently used books—including hard and soft-cover editions, large print on varied topics—as well as CDs, VHS tapes and DVDs in excellent condition. This annual event provides an opportunity for you to recycle these items which will be available at bargain prices to the general public at the annual Book Sale on April 3 & 4, 2014. Directions to the Tel Hai community, which is located off Beaver Dam Road east of Route 10 in Honey Brook Township, can be found on their website: www.telhai.org or by using their physical address (1200 Tel Hai Circle) on your GPS.

Donations will be accepted beginning Tuesday, February 25 and continuing until Tuesday, April 1, 2014 in the Garrett Community Center. Collection boxes arranged by category await your donations on the first floor, beside The Gathering Room. Interested persons may contact Keeli Looper, Volunteer Services Director, for more information by calling 610-273-9333, extension 2010.

The Tel Hai Library Committee is not able to accept magazines, dated materials, Readers Digest condensed books, text books, game or puzzle books, dictionaries or encyclopedia for the event. The fund raiser supports the operations of the Tel Hai Library located in the community center. The committee hopes to purchase additional fixtures as well as books and varied media for the library.

Tel Hai is a nationally accredited not-for-profit continuing care retirement community that has served senior adults in northwestern Chester County since 1956. They invite their book-loving neighbors in Chester, Berks and Lancaster Counties to participate as a donor today—and as a customer at the Spring Book Sale on April 3 – 4, 2014.

PHOTO: Tel Hai Library Committee invites the public to donate gently used books, DVDs, CDs and VHS tapes in designated drop-off boxes located in the Garrett Community Center now until Tuesday, April 1. Book-lovers will want to return for the annual Book Sale to be held April 3 & 4, 2014 on campus.

Louise Wenger

LWengerLouise Wenger shared a very busy and productive fifty-two years of marriage with her husband Bill. Life was good. Louise kept busy with parenting, farm chores, and learning the clock repair business as she helped her husband with his at-home business. But, she adds, when she lost her husband ten years ago, she realized she had some lonely hours to fill. Because she reached out to Tel Hai to fill her lonely hours, we are a better and happier place. For helping us and filling our hours with sunshine and smiles, we thank Louise.

Louise has volunteered here since 2004. She tells us that they knew Tel Hai well, because they had visited her great aunt as early on as the mid-1970s. Her husband Bill used to speak at fifth Sunday Worship services in our Chapel.

Louise tells us that she had wanted to be a nurse as a young girl, but her parents had a small farm and didn’t have the funds to send her to nursing school. She never looked back on her childhood career dreams through her busy parenting years, but when her oldest daughter, Pat, went off to college, thoughts of a career returned. She spoke about working with Bill, and they decided to leave it in the Lord’s hands. If He wanted her to have employment outside of their home, something would present itself as a sign. And, a sign she got! An acquaintance called and asked her to help out in a neighborhood nursing home – she did and she loved it! Her prayers had been answered.

Louise has three daughters: the first-born, Pat, lives in Alaska; her second daughter, Marcella, lives in Elverson, and her youngest daughter, Brenda, lives in Oxford. All three daughters work the medical field. Pat, who is an RN, married a Doctor in the service and moved to Alaska in 1983 following military assignments. Marcella is a dental assistant but now provides nursing care in Elverson. Brenda is an RN with Hospice in Oxford.

Her three daughters have given the next generations to Louise. She has five grandchildren, and she is eagerly awaiting the birth of her tenth great-grandchild. Louise tells of her grandchildren’s careers with joy in her voice as they seem to have followed the dream and have found careers in the field of medicine ranging from RNs to research doctors.

When asked if she had ever travelled to Alaska, Louise replies, “Oh! Lots of times!” She travels easily, and plans to travel to the Alaska again when her great-grandchild is born. She adds that her grandson, who lives on the West coast, has a fishery degree and works to preserve our fish and food supply. There will be no slowing down for Louise. Not soon. Not now. Not yet!

Outside of Tel Hai, Louise also stays busy. She helps at church and is always lending a neighbor a hand. In fact, as we spoke, Louise received a telephone call from a neighbor who needed Louise to come to do some clock repair. Louise tells us she learned to repair clocks by watching her husband, and she continues to do small repairs as she can.

Before renovations changed the nature of our gift shop, Louise used to volunteer there. Following the renovations, she helps out at the front desks. In addition, she helps with Friday morning coffees in Lakeview, and she accompanies Lakeview residents on their shopping trips. For variety, she helps with the Book Sale and with Marketing’s Day in the Country; but she usually does just about anything we ask.

For helping us and filling our hours with sunshine and smiles, we thank Louise. For all of the hours she gives with eager enthusiasm, we highlight Louise Wenger in our Volunteer Spotlight. Add to this, that Louise is not a resident, and we are even more surprised. She is such a familiar face. We are often surprised to learn she doesn’t even live here. She knows so many people, and they all know her because of her welcoming, friendly smile and ever present, ever helpful nature.

Volunteers Celebrated on Campus

Ruthie Sauder & Margaret Schoenbaum revNational Volunteer Week is celebrated across the nation April 6 through 12 this year, but Tel Hai’s 375 active volunteers are appreciated daily on campus.  Their service may take the form of a Friendly Visitor, mail room volunteer or Meals On Wheels delivery person; each role is of great importance aiding and enriching community life. Their presence may facilitate an event or activity, provide educational programs for all to enjoy, escort others to chapel services or physical therapy on campus. There is something for everyone to do. Being active as a volunteer has many benefits including providing regular social interaction which helps fight the threat of isolation, combats depression and helps keep one physically fit.

Some harder to quantify benefits include the building of relationships between people.  Tel Hai’s Slice of Historyprogram pairs residents with scribes who create a record of the resident’s “story.” One such pairing between Ruthie Sauder, a cottage resident, and Margaret Schoenbaum, a 100 year-old health care resident, resulted in the creation of a record of a remarkable life story and a chance for different generations to work together while providing a vivid history lesson in the first-person. Mrs. Schoenbaum’s family initially provided an outline of Margaret’s remarkable life journey—from Poland to eastern Germany and on to Singapore during the Holocaust. Joining her future husband in Java in the Dutch East Indies, she endured his imprisonment by Dutch authorities after the German invasion of Holland. Securing passage on a tramp steamer, they arrived after a three-month sea voyage in 1947 and settled in New York City. Retirement in San Diego proved to be even more enjoyable.  Ruthie and Margaret laughed recalling family joys, grandchildren, knitting, making baby clothes and stuffed animals and Margaret’s love of soup (“As long as you have soup, you will never go hungry.”) Although they walked very different paths in life, both women now call Tel Hai “home” and were blessed with the opportunity to honor a remarkable life, connect and celebrate the experience of sharing.

National Volunteer Week hopes to inspire, recognize, and encourage people to volunteer in their communities—to be engaged and perhaps to discover new friends along the way.

PHOTO (from left): Ruthie Sauder and Margaret Schoenbaum met in March after the celebration of the latter’s 100th birthday in mid-February. Margaret’s fascinating life story was the subject of an inspiring personal profile created by Ruthie in honor of this milestone birthday. Both women are residents of the Tel Hai community in Honey Brook.

Generosity Bolsters Food Drive

2014 Food Drive w Sybil 002Tel Hai’s annual food drive concluded on March 31, but the needs of food insecure neighbors continues to grow across the region. Sybil Oswalt, Registered Dietitian and event coordinator, announced that 520 pounds of food stuffs had been collected on campus during the community’s observation of National Nutrition Month. The donations will benefit the Twin Valley Food Pantry in Morgantown.

Founded in 1994 as an outreach ministry, the Twin Valley Food Pantry has been hosted by Conestoga Mennonite Church since November 2009. Located on Main Street (Route 23) in Morgantown, the pantry has been supporting local families in need—approximately 145 families representing 425 persons have been served on an average distribution day. Working in partnership with the Greater Berks Food Bank, community churches, local businesses and organizations the program directors, Howard and Carol Moss, coordinate the efforts of approximately 60 volunteers on distribution day—the fourth Tuesday of each month. Stocking the pantry for distribution also requires the efforts of a hardworking group of high school students and other community volunteers the Wednesday before.

Tel Hai residents and staff volunteers have been active at the Twin Valley Food Pantry as well as the Shepherd’s Kitchen in Honey Brook. The Honey Brook Mobile Food Pantry temporarily located at the Good Food Distribution Center on Horseshoe Pike in Honey Brook began operating in January 2014. They too depend on volunteers during their monthly distribution day on the last Wednesday of each month. The mobile food pantry was opened in response to the continuing documented need for a food pantry serving the Twin Valley School District.

PHOTO: Sybil Oswalt, Tel Hai Dietitian, thanked residents and staff who donated to the food drive held during National Nutrition Month on campus. More than 500 pounds of food stuffs will be donated to the Twin Valley Food Pantry in Morgantown as a result.

Walk Like MADD

Walkpic1Since July 2010, at least seven young people have been killed in alcohol-related crashes in the Honey Brook/Downingtown area alone. This horrific and tragic statistic has become a fact of life that has had an irrevocable effect on the families and friends of the victims. To honor the memory of these local youths who lost their lives in drunken driving crashes, a 5K walk is being held in Downingtown on Sunday, May 4, 2014.

Organizers are urging community members to join in the fight with MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) on that date as walkers or trail volunteers.

WALK like MADD® is the organization’s signature event. It will be held in over 60 cities throughout the nation, involving thousands of walkers united by the goal of creating a brighter future without drunk driving and underage drinking.

The registration fee for the local event is $20 and interested volunteers can register online to walk or assist along the route which will start at 9:00am at The Ponds in Downingtown.

Tel Hai is sponsoring a team of walkers as part of our community outreach efforts. You can join us by registering online as part of the Tel Hai Team. To secure registration forms on campus, please contact Keeli Looper in the Volunteer Services Office.

For more information please call 484-252-9114 or register for the event online at www.walklikemadd.org/Downingtown.

Keeli Looper, Volunteer Services Director

Chasity Brown, Wellness Director

History of Fashion Draws a Crowd

Karen Jessee in costumeThe highlight of the first day of spring on Tel Hai’s campus was a fascinating presentation by Karen Jessee, a collector of women’s historical and vintage fashions and accessories. The resident-developed event which attracted 125 ladies grew out of a desire to create a time of wonderful community fellowship and an opportunity to say “thank you” to staff that had gone “above-and-beyond” during the exceptional winter just past. The fund raiser’s net proceeds benefitted the Good Samaritan Fund which supports staff members in financial need as a result of health challenges or other family emergencies.

Tel Hai resident, Billy Guthrie’s knowledge of Ms. Jessee’s wonderful program was the spark that got things going. Joined by Fran Atkins, Ann Paton and Karen Runyon, the planning committee provided a memorable event for all to enjoy.  Jessee describes The Way We Wore program as an introduction to “200 years of the feminine silhouette…covering everything from bustles to bellbottoms.” Ms. Jessee shared the connection between the lives of women and the history of the period in which they lived; that in turn influenced the fashion of their day. A retired educator, Karen Jessee was also the recipient of the NBC National Teacher Award and became a professional organizer upon retirement.  This Wilmington, DE resident enjoys learning people’s stories, easy proximity to the theatre and museums and has traveled to England twice to study historical fashion.

Residents Ruthann Fleet and Marti Emmanuel were selected from the audience to model period attire. The program included displays of some garments and accessories that ladies in attendance were happy to no longer find in their own closets. “Tel Hai ladies and guests had a fascinating afternoon enjoying tea and learning about the history of women’s fashion—

and even taking a peek ‘under the skirt,’ ” committee member, Ann Paton offered. “Karen Jessee’s program has a huge WOW factor. If others have an opportunity to see any of her programs, our advice is don’t miss it!”

PHOTO: Karen Jessee’s The Way We Wore presentation covering 200 years of women’s fashion was a huge success on Tel Hai’s campus and a wonderful way to welcome spring. The fund raiser benefitted the Good Samaritan Fund which offers support to staff members in times of need. Karen Jessee, a retired educator, is an enchanting living history presenter.

Concert Series Doubles the Enjoyment

Steve Kramer CellistThe Tel Hai Concert Series will offer two opportunities for the public to enjoy inspirational musical performances during the month of April. Vocal and instrumental programs have been scheduled. The first will be a concert of gospel songs presented by the Gap Male Chorus on Sunday, April 13 at 7:00pm in the Tel Hai Chapel on their campus located off Beaver Dam Road, east of Route 10.

Organized in 1922, the Gap Male Chorus was originally composed of men from different churches in the Gap area of Lancaster County. Today the chorus has grown to include over 50 active members who represent approximately 35 different churches in four counties. The chorus has the distinction of having presented concerts of gospel songs every year for over 90 years. Their program is open to the public and offered free of charge, but they ask those attending to bring canned goods which will be donated to the local food pantry as their expression of thanks for the enjoyable program.

The second concert on Sunday, April 27 will be presented at 3:00pm in the Tel Hai Chapel featuring Steve Kramer, cellist. Mr. Kramer was born in Copenhagen, Denmark and immigrated to the United States in 2010. Know as a major international artist and performer, he began violin lessons at age 3. Born into a family of musicians, he was inspired by his grandfather Vladimir Yeshayavitch Novak, an eminent violinist and teacher with the Kiev Philharmonic and Kiev school of music. Steve’s performances are dedicated to putting forward his grandfather’s legacy today. Mr. Kramer debuted at the Kimmel Center’s Verizon Hall in the 2012-13 season and will be a soloist and chamber musician at the Barnes Foundation in Philadelphia and at Lincoln Center in New York City in the 2014-15 season. He is currently the artist in residence at String Theory High School in Philadelphia. His concert at Tel Hai will include accompaniment by piano and clarinet.

Directions to Tel Hai can be found on their website www.telhai.org under the “Contact Us” tab. When relying on your GPS please use the 1200 Tel Hai Circle physical address. The Tel Hai community has provided a worry-free lifestyle to residents since 1956 with a variety of housing options, health and personal care, and rehabilitation services.

PHOTO: Cellist, Steve Kramer shown here, will perform at Tel Hai on Sunday, April 27 at 3:00pm in the Chapel on campus. Earlier in the month, the Gap Male Chorus will offer a concert of gospel songs on Sunday, April 13 at 7:00pm. Both programs are open to the public and offered free of charge.

Ladies Tea and Historical Fashion Show at Tel Hai

FranAtkinsOn the first day of Spring, ladies at Tel Hai gathered together for a tea; but, this was no ordinary tea. Volunteers collected tea pots and china tea cups from residents and dining services – enough to serve 130 ladies with elegance. Karen Jessee came with entertainment that was informative, interesting, and educational. She calls her demonstration, “The Way We Wore.” We learned about the changes to ladies fashions – including outerwear and underwear – and the way those changes were influenced by political and economic surroundings.

We wanted to do something that showed how very much we appreciate our staff, and this seemed like an enjoyable way to give proceeds from ticket sales to the Good Samaritan Fund while spending time with our friends and neighbors. Temporarily lost in time and fashion through the years, our afternoon flew by and was gone before we realized it was time to go!  We left the day feeling good about our effort,what we learned, and what we had earned for the Good Samaritan Fund.

It is a sad day that passes by without presenting a reason to smile, a challenge to our thinking, the luxury of comfort and friendship, and an opportunity to give back to the community that cares for us so lovingly and eagerly.We did all this and more: we smiled at the humorous things women used to do in the name of beauty; we tried to figure out just how women ever managed to get those “contraptions” in place to minimize their waists and expand their hips; we languished in the comfort of sharing tea with good friends; but, ultimately, we rejoiced in the good we were able to do in giving back to the Good Samaritan Fund.

Fran Atkins, cottage resident

Annual Sew-In Benefits Vets

Sew-In Veterans QuiltsTel Hai’s SEW Creative group invited neighbors and friends to join in the annual Veterans Quilt Sew-In on Thursday, March 13 in the Tel Hai Chapel. No sewing experience was required of the volunteers; light refreshments were served. The bitter cold outside was countered by the warm hearts of the 54 volunteers participating. Representatives from all neighborhoods on the Tel Hai campus were represented: Maple Knoll, Cedar Ridge and Woods Edge cottagers worked side-by-side with apartment residents from Hillcrest and Tel Haven. Even future Tel Hai residents and StoneCroft folks turned out to help. The Calico Cutters sent a representative as well. The two sewing groups will present their finished quilts to the Coatesville Veterans Hospital in April.

The machine stitched quilts represented a number of styles including the Dresden Plate, simple blocks and stripes, Pinwheels, Rail Fence, Spinning Star, 9-Patch and Snowball. Stars and hearts were appliquéd on some squares; others were string-tied. Messages of encouragement for the veterans were created by veterans present and added with iron-on blocks. In fact, 8 male volunteers took part in hand-tying, message writing and ironing during the event. In total, the group created 76 lap quilts to be donated. The group founder, Shirley Walton has lost track of the number of years this outreach has been done, but the warm feelings generated are always uplifting. Red, white and blue fabrics—many with patriotic themes were used in the creation of each quilt.

PHOTO: This year’s Sew-In for Veterans was a big success at Tel Hai. Seventy-six lap quilts were completed for donation to the Coatesville Veterans Administration Hospital on March 13. They will be delivered to the recipients during the month of April.